Hi, I’m Jodie (she/her), founder of Ella Bella Weddings & Events, covering Suffolk, Essex and beyond. I specialise in designing inclusive, sensory-safe and alternative weddings for couples who want to break the rules and celebrate their day their way. For the neurospicy, the gays and the theys, the anxious planners, the overwhelmed humans and anyone who doesn’t fit the traditional wedding mould.
As a neurodivergent myself, I understand how exhausting wedding planning can be. From sensory overload and decision fatigue to family expectations and outdated traditions, I’m here to make the process easier, more enjoyable and completely yours.
No masking. No forced traditions. No performing for anyone else. Just your wedding, your way. Whether you dream of a mountain-top ceremony, a cheese wedding cake, button bouquets or simply avoiding the spotlight, I’ll help you create a day that reflects who you really are. We’ll build a timeline that protects your energy, prioritise what matters to you and find suppliers who are genuinely inclusive, accessible and respectful.
I’m proud to be a sustainable, LGBTQIA+ and disabled-friendly wedding supplier. You don’t have to follow anyone else’s expectations to have an unforgettable day. From finding your perfect accessible venue and matching you with like-minded suppliers to styling your tables and coordinating your wedding day, I can provide as much or as little support as you need. Choose from my Guidance Planning, Bespoke Full Planning or Month of Coordination packages.
First Aid trained, DBS checked and insured, I’ll be your cheerleader from the first planning step to the last dance, helping you feel confident, supported and excited about your wedding. Let’s rewrite the wedding rulebook and create a unique, quirky and fun celebration that feels entirely like you.
Awards and recognition
Featured in Unconventional Weddings, Quirky Weddings and Rock n Roll Bride





















