couple portrait. Groom whisters in his brides ear. The bride holds a fan with rude french saying meaning 'damn marriage'

An Unconventional French Wedding
Celebrating Love & Friendship

Mélanie and Marc’s unconventional wedding in France was the definition of doing things their own way. Every choice they made came from a place of love – for each other and for the people around them.

Instead of a day built on tradition, they created a weekend full of freedom and fun. Guests were treated to three meals, portraits, a mix of games, tattoos and laughter from start to finish. There were no seating plans, no fixed schedules and no pressure. Everyone was free to enjoy the day however they wanted.

For Mélanie, a wedding photographer with more than 110 weddings behind her, this was about breaking every expectation. She wanted a celebration that felt alive, not another day at work. And with an amazing team of creative friends by their side, that’s exactly what they got – a French wedding that was truly, unapologetically unconventional.

A French Wedding made for guests

French wedding venue La Colonie De Trezien

From the very start, Mélanie and Marc knew their wedding wasn’t just about them. They wanted a weekend that celebrated everyone they love. With friends and family travelling from far and wide, it made sense to stretch the celebration across the whole weekend. La Colonie De Trezien, an open and welcoming venue, was the perfect space for their relaxed, weekend-long gathering. 

wedding guests taking part in a yoga session as part of a wedding weekend celebration
wedding guests sitting at benches outside a wedding crepe food truck as part of french wedding

Eating together is an opportunity for people to connect, so the couple planned three shared meals. La Crevette Blueue  provided the delicious buffet-style meal and a food truck from La Capitainerie kept things easy and relaxed.

Cocktails from Iwen Exawat kept everyone refreshed. Little guests were entertained by Babysit Evenement allowing parents to relax and enjoy the celebrations.

guests line up to take part in the slip and side at an unconventional french wedding. one guest is leaping through the air about to slide down.

The atmosphere stayed playful from start to finish. Guests could wander between a shooting range, slip’n slide, duck fishing, and tarot readings. Meanwhile, music from Eric Sionny kept the party flowing late into the evening, ensuring everyone stayed in high spirits. There was always something to discover, and everyone joined in at their own pace. No formal timetable, no seating plan, no one rushing around. Écume Events  handled the coordination so no one had to “work” the wedding day.

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Wedding guest wearing a leopard print swimsuit stands with an air rifle as part of the guest entertainment at an unconventional french wedding
children take part on hook a duck as part of the baby sitting service at a french wedding
groom receiving a tarot reading as part of an unconventional french wedding day
detail shot of crab and prawn grazing platters as part of a french wedding breakfast
bride and groom sit under a fire breather who is breathing out a huge plume of fire at their unconventional wedding
wedding guests wearing super mario bros masks dance at an unconventional wedding

A Celebration of Creativity & Friendship

unconventional wedding ceremony area marked with two floral towers and cinema chairs with popcorn

As a wedding photographer Mélanie had seen it all and she didn’t want her wedding to be the same. The answer was simple: give her team complete creative control.

Every supplier was also a friend, so trust came naturally. Mélanie told them to do what they’d always dreamed of doing, but never got the chance to try. 

Blomster Fleurs went bold with tropical blooms and vivid arrangements – no classic white and green in sight. Delichouz Cake swapped the traditional wedding cake for a Super Mario Bros inspired design.

When it came to décor, the couple didn’t overthink it. Most of what you see in the photos came straight from their home – red cinema chairs, old wooden crates, and framed memories. They ordered a few bits online the week before and called it done. 

detail shot of princess peach and bowser from Mario Bros wedding cake toppers
couple cut unconventional 4 tiered Mario Bros inspired wedding cake
detail shot of bridal bouquet made from red, blue, orange and white florals
detail shot of unconventional flower arrangement for wedding ceremony. It contains a mix of red, blue and whit flowers

Their wedding style

bridal portrait - the bride stands in hte window wearing a gold wedding dress and glasses. She holds a wedding bouquet made of red, blue and orange flowers

Mélanie knew from the start she didn’t want a white dress. For their civil wedding (which took place separately), she wore white trousers and a custom Super Mario Bros top by Y Brown – a designer who understood her playful side. For the big day itself, Y Brown created a sparkling gold dress that caught the light and matched the energy of the celebration.

Laura Jaffret handled hair and makeup, keeping everything natural and unfussy so Mélanie could move, dance, and laugh all day long. 

groom having his bow tie fixed by a friend

Marc kept things relaxed but stylish in an outfit by Latelier 5, proving that comfort and confidence are a perfect match. Together, they looked like themselves – no costumes, no expectations, just personality.

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detail shot of the brides ceremony two piece outfit which has mario brothers details on the shoulders
bride looking at herself in the wardrobe mirror. she wears an unconventional white two piece trouser outfit with ruffled shoulders
groom portrait. the groom wears a deep red velvet jacket with matching bow tie
Bridal portrait of a bride wearing a gold wedding dress, holding a bright wedding bouquet
bride having her lipstick applied before her French wedding ceremony

unconventional ceremony with tattoos

Groom talking in a microphone as a tattoo artist gives him a tattoo as part of the wedding ceremony

Mélanie and Marc’s ceremony was led by Les Ceremonies De Gabrielle and reflected everything they believed about love and freedom. Instead of exchanging rings, they chose tattoos – a powerful, permanent symbol of commitment. Ségo, their tattoo artist, was there throughout the day creating small tattoos for guests who wanted to join in.

Later in the evening, Mélanie even tattooed her husband herself, adding another playful and intimate moment to the celebrations.

bride and groom hold their left arms in the air to show their matching wedding day tattoos which they received during an unconventional wedding ceremony
detail shot of the tattoo artist giving a wedding ceremony tattoo
wedding guests wait to receive their wedding day tattoo. A man is sat a the tattoo artist bench having a tattoo on his foot
detail shot of a bride giving her husband a tattoo at the unconventional evening reception of their wedding

An unconventional Photography & Film Team

couple standing, posing to have a Collodion photograph taken. The old fashioned camera is in front of them

For a wedding this full of life, it made sense to have more than one photographer. Mélanie asked four of her friends – Moon Rise Photography, Audrey Gueton Photographer, Guillaume Foray Photographe and Aurore Trelaün  to each capture a small part of the day. They took turns behind the camera, working in two-hour slots so everyone could enjoy the celebration as guests too.

image of a Collodion wet plate photo in a tin as it develops as part of an unconventional wedding

Every family also received a collodion portrait created on-site by Enzo Lucia, assisted by Laura Aubrée – a beautiful keepsake of the day.

 

The film, created by Marions Nous Dans Les Bois, brings the atmosphere to life. It’s full of movement and fun, showing the true heart of their unconventional French wedding.

unconventional at heart

bride and groom couple portrait. Bride wears gold dress and the groom a waistcoat and bowtie as part of unconventional wedding in France

Mélanie’s advice is simple and powerful:

Find in YOUR world, not in Pinterest. Do what you truly love, what makes you feel alive. Don’t lock yourself into what you’ve already seen, unless that’s what really excites you. Of course, some people will say it’s not a ‘real’ wedding if it doesn’t follow tradition, but their opinion doesn’t matter. Why stand in front of a champagne fountain if you don’t even like it? Why have wedding rings if you can’t stand wearing jewelry? The answers are already within you, the only hard part is feeling free enough to own your choices.

The couple were surrounded by friends who were also their creative team. Mélanie admits she cried after the wedding, moved by the love and investment of everyone involved. This wasn’t just a celebration of a couple. It was a celebration of friendship, creativity, and freedom.

bridal portrait of bride wearing gold dress sat in a red car at sunset

supplier dream team

Arty couple portrait where the couple are only visible in a car side mirror - everything else is faided

Couple: Mélanie and Marc

Wedding coordination: Écume Events

Venue: La Colonie De Trezien

Film: Marions Nous Dans Les Bois

Photography: Moon Rise Photography, Audrey Gueton Photographer, Guillaume Foray Photographe and Aurore Trelaün 

Dress and ceremony outfit: Y Brown

Groom’s wear: Latelier 5

HMUA: Laura Jaffret

Food: La Capitainerie and La Crevette Blueue

Cake: Delichouz Cake

Celebrant: Les Ceremonies De Gabrielle

Flowers: Blomster Fleurs

DJ: Eric Sionny

Kids Entertainment: Babysit Evenement

Collodion (wet plate) photos: Enzo Lucia with Laura Aubrée  assisting

Tattoos: Ségo 

Cocktails and Bar: Iwen Exawat

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