how to be yourself
on your wedding day
Your wedding day is one of the most significant moments in your life, so why conform to traditions that don’t resonate with you? At Unconventional Wedding, we believe in celebrating your unique love story, in a way that makes you feel incredible. Here are our top tips to ensure your wedding day is as authentically “you” as possible.
This blog post features a celebratory photoshoot, coordinated by Electric Joy Ceremonies who said:
“The aim of the shoot was for all models to leave feeling empowered and celebrated with a bright and joyful aesthetic, beautiful outfits and incredible hair and make-up. From different body shapes and ages, to invisible disabilities, we celebrated everyone with pampering in the morning from our incredible HMUAs, to dancing together, confetti throwing and champagne toasting.”
Featuring photos by Pink Photographics
personalise
your vows
Forget the cookie-cutter vows. Write your own and let your personality shine through. Whether you’re poetic, humorous, or straight to the point, make your promises heartfelt and true to who you are as a couple. Share your inside jokes, dreams, and even those quirks that make your love story unique. A celebrant is the perfect person to help you snazz up your wedding ceremony.
Electric Joy Ceremonies says:
“As a celebrant, diversity and inclusivity are two of my core values and I have such an innate passion for celebrating love and all the things that make a couple unique!”
alternative
wedding wear
Tradition says white gown or black tux, but who says you have to follow that? Wear an outfit that makes you feel amazing. Love bright colours? Rock a red dress or a vibrant suit. Prefer comfort? Go for a chic jumpsuit or stylish sneakers. Remember, confidence is your best accessory.
Ryley & Flynn said:
“We create custom wedding dresses that celebrate uniqueness. Every dress is designed from start to finish making sure everyone can express their personal style and story – no matter what shape, size or ability.”
Flamingo Bridal said:
“We’re all about putting the joy back into finding a wedding dress! Forget norms, expectations and societal pressure, we are focused on helping brides to find a dress that celebrates their own sense of style and definition of beauty. Our collection includes dresses in all different shapes, styles and sizes. We don’t do dresses by numbers and we don’t do big budget. What we do offer is colour, sparkle and individuality.”
meaningful
wedding venue
Opt for a location that reflects your personality and shared experiences. It could be the park where you had your first date, a cozy backyard, or an alternative wedding venue like an art gallery or your favorite coffee shop. A meaningful setting adds an extra layer of significance to your big day.
Are you searching for your dream venue? You might love: The Best Alternative Wedding Venues
unique
wedding suppliers
Finding your team of kickass wedding suppliers is key to making your vision come to life. Look for vendors who understand your style and values. Meet with potential photographers, caterers, and florists to discuss your ideas. Make sure they’re excited about your unique plans and can offer personalized solutions. Trust your gut—if you feel a genuine connection and enthusiasm from a supplier, they’re likely a great fit. Read reviews, ask for recommendations, and choose those who are as passionate about your day as you are.
Here’s some wedding planning advice from Pink Photographics:
“When selecting and booking wedding suppliers, my advice is to always go for the ones who bring joy to your wedding. Obviously skill, product/service and price are all a big factor, but you should go for those people that understand you. I’m a big believer in attracting your tribe and I want you to feel relaxed, safe and valued. I will probably spend more time with you than anyone else on the day, so you need to feel comfortable and be able to be yourself. This will show in your photos. You wouldn’t want to go to work and spend the day with someone that you didn’t click with or they didn’t listen to you and made you feel bad, so why would you choose that for your wedding day?!”
incorporate
your personality
Integrate elements that reflect your passions. If you love painting, set up a collaborative canvas for guests to add to. Are you both avid readers? Use books as centerpieces. These personal touches not only make your wedding stand out but also make it a true reflection of your relationship.
Here’s what Star & Leaf Veil told us about being yourself on your wedding day:
“There’s nothing I love more than working with clients who want to create something personal. Many people don’t think about custom wedding veils, but the options are endless! The best weddings I’ve been to are ones where I’ve seen the couple’s personalities and interests reflected in the big day, and when you can tell they are both being true to themselves.”
surround yourself
with loved ones
Finding your team of kickass suppliers is key to making your vision come to life so you can be yourself on your wedding day. Look for vendors who understand your style and values. Meet with potential photographers, caterers, and florists to discuss your ideas. Make sure they’re excited about your unique plans and can offer personalized solutions. Trust your gut—if you feel a genuine connection and enthusiasm from a supplier, they’re likely a great fit. Read reviews, ask for recommendations, and choose those who are as passionate about your day as you are.
You might also love: 10 Ways To Have An Alternative Wedding
supplier
credits
Shoot coordinator & Celebrant – Electric Joy Ceremonies
Cake – Shirley Rae
Wedding Venue – The Hall Barns
Venue Stylist – Lily Rose Weddings and Events
Photographer – Pink Photographics
Videographer – James Douglas
Content Creator – The Social Hun
Bridal Wear – Flamingo Bridal
Bridal Wear – Ryley & Flynn
Hair Stylist – Megan Lee
Make-up Artist – House of Belles
Make-up Artist – Baby Doll Blush Salon
Veils & Bows – Star & Leaf
Glitter/Eye Stickers – Glitter Prizm
Headwear – Empressive Headwear
Live Painter – Lissie Art
Singer – Emily Rose
Model – Ju Santino, Amy Louise, Lissie, Bellatrix Monroe, Rachael Clark, Suzanne, Emily Rose
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